Updated in Nov 2024. Moving to a new country, going through a breakup, losing a job, or living with mental conditions are very challenging. Yet, there’s no reason to suffer alone when one can choose to join hands with others and let the power of connection and group support encourage and heal us. In the absence of such social support in Beijing, CandleX established the peer support group in October, 2015, with the goal to provide psychosocial support to Beijing community. It provides a safe and supportive environment for people living in and out of Beijing to share personal thoughts and experiences in small, confidential gatherings. To understand this project, or if yo u’d like to read our 1st , 2nd and 3rd year support group review, please visit https://www.candlex.cn/mental-health-support-group . CandleX Other Available Resources If you are in a crisis, please seek a professional immediately at the same time. Your will find useful information on our crisis page . If you’re more interested in how to navigate the mental health world and get more info on how to get support or get treatment, for you or someone you know, please check out our pretreament guidance   program. If you are looking for professional support, you can check out Xiaojie Qin , our director and psychotherapist’s page. Peer Support Key Information Peer support group Participants: Our support groups are for people living with mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety or suicide ideation. The support group is especially effective for newcomers who are in situations of lack of social support, experiencing shame and guilt of having depression or people who present an elevated risk of mental illness. Date: every second and fourth Tuesday (both offline by default) Time : 19:30-21:00 Location: near Dongdaqiao (Details will be communicated via a confirmation email after 4 pm, the day before each meeting) Language: English Max number: 7 people each session Fee: 88rmb, 30rmb for students, financial aid is available for those going through financial difficulties Registration via scanning QR code , or click on https://yoopay.cn/event/05475102 . Support Group coordinator will reach out via private message to confirm your registration after screening and payment. Peer Group Principles We gather to share our stories and feelings, help and give each other emotional support when dealing with the difficult emotions，recognize the importance of tending to and promote our own self-care. We use guided meditation and breathing exercises to create safe, peaceful and comfortable environment for sharing . We shall not be held responsible for group member’s safety. We all are peers. There are no professionals in this group. CandleX will not be responsible for people engaging in self-harm or suicidal ideations. By signing up to the peer support group, I understand and agree to release CandleX and its staff or volunteers from any or all liability connected to my own participation, including but not limited to any forms of self-harm or suicide. Confidentiality: All information shared with the group is strictly confidential. All new participants will need to register first for eligibility screening. Some information related to the group dynamics and facilitation may be used for an internal debrief between facilitators and the Support Group manager to improve the quality of sessions and to empower others to set up support groups during facilitator’s training. No graphic description of suicide, self-harm and death as it may trigger some of the attendees. Please note that this is a Peer Support Group , there will be one facilitator throughout the session to monitor the progress of each session and facilitate group interactions, no professional therapists will be attending. We have a WeChat group (that you may join after attending at least one meeting) where you would be informed of Beijing community mental health events, as well as other information that might be helpful for your recovery. Community Contribution: We conduct regular internal debriefs between facilitators and the Support Group manager to ensure continuous quality check, learning and improvement. Additionally, we offer facilitator training programs to empower others to establish their own groups. During these training and debrief sessions, we handle information related to group dynamics and facilitation with sensitivity and care. We also compile an annual report on the demographics of our attendees to help the Beijing and broader community better understand our efforts and establish complementary groups, ensuring that all our initiatives are aligned and cohesive. If you have any concerns or feedback of the support group, we welcome you to let us know by emailing it to xiaojie.qin@candlex.cn . The concern would be handled sensitively directly by CandleX’s director. All information can be found on our website under " Get Help ".

CandleX's founder and Director, Xiaojie Qin , is a psychotherapist. If you need psychotherapy, please contact her via her therapy email at xiaojieqin2020@163.com As mental health awareness grows, more and more people are curious about seeking psychotherapy. CandleX aims to provide learning resources to support those who may be navigating this space for the first time. In this educational video series you’ll find answers to commonly asked questions, practical advice, and nuanced insights from psychotherapist Qin Xiaojie that will help you make informed decisions along your therapeutic journey. Watch videos here !

Updated Nov 2024 If you are experiencing mental health crisis, or your loved ones are, you can reach out to us and use the following services at CandleX: CandleX’s Mental Health Peer Support Group Pre-treatment Guidance Session Therapy Services by Xiaojie Qin You can find more resources available at CandleX at the end of this article. Please be aware that this compiled list of resources is not intended to be exhaustive, but rather a curated selection that we have endorsed to help avoid choice paralysis. 1. Reach out to the crisis hotlines listed below: For anyone in need of assistance in times of crisis, or just a listening ear, below are some recommended hotlines. They all offer anonymous, confidential support services. Some of them offer it in the form of live chat. All services are free of charge: callers only need to pay the normal phone call rate. Additionally, you can find regional hotline on these pages: 你可以在这个网站寻找更多区域热线: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html https://findahelpline.com 2. Domestic Abuse Victims: For those who are going through domestic violence, here is the list of full resources available: 反家暴公益热线全国版地图 . The majority of services  are in Chinese only. There are two services that offer them also in English, which were verified in September 2024. 3. Alcoholics Anonymous Group in Beijing:   https://www.aabeijing.com/ Read our interview with one of the member from our community writing project: Michael’s Journey to Alcoholism Recovery.

On this anniversary of CandleX's Mental Health Peer Support Group, we are thankful for the continued trust placed in us by our community as we seek to provide a safe space for individuals to connect and find solace as we each navigate our mental health journeys. Since 2015, we are so proud to have empowered a group of dedicated individuals to take on leadership roles and contribute to our ongoing operations. Moreover, in 2022, we opened up our mental health peer support facilitators training to the public with the intention to support emerging group leaders to set up their own support groups. Community care is so deeply valuable, and we hope to see this space continue to grow and thrive. Thank you to those who've reached out to share messages about their experience with how our support group has benefited their wellbeing.

When I first encountered a sudden loss, it dates back to 2014, when the mysterious disappearance of a plane from Malaysia to Beijing carried a friend of mine. Subsequently, over the past few years, I have endured the passings of my grandparents, one after another. Moreover, several individuals who once shared laughter and creativity with me through the same interests met tragic ends in car accidents, their departures all the more unexpected due to their youthful ages. Knowing there’s limited affordable therapy support out there, I am compelled to contribute to the well-being of those navigating the difficult journey of loss and grief within our community. I aspire to offer therapy services, partially on a pro bono basis, believing that such support can facilitate a smoother and more compassionate recovery process for those in need. Xiaojie Qin 回溯至2014年的那个瞬间，我初次遭遇了生命中突如其来的失去——那架自马来西亚飞往北京的航班悄然失踪，带走了我的一位朋友。此后数年，祖父母的相继离世又在我心中刻下了深深的烙印。而近两年间，两位正值青春、与我共享欢笑与创意的朋友，在车祸中骤然离世，他们的离去，如同璀璨星辰陨落。 作为心理咨询师，职业的界限虽让我无法直接为他们的亲友提供慰藉，但我希望其他那些在失去与悲伤中挣扎的人们带去一丝光亮。因此，我决定在接下来的半年里，以半公益的形式，特别为经济条件有限、正经历丧失之痛的朋友们开放咨询之门，引导和陪伴他们度过丧失的阴霾。 秦小杰 Details: This partial pro bono services is valid from Nov 2024-May 2025. Number: 2 spots Rate: 400rmb/session for 8 sessions in total. Any further continuation will be full price. Eligibility: For those who have lost someone, including pets, in the past 6 months. Loss could be natural death, death of accidents, and etc. For those who (may) experience prolonged grief disorder (see below). Language: English or Chinese, or a mixture of both Income: Priorities given to those with monthly income less than 15000rmb. If you have employment benefits includes therapy services, you are encouraged to use those services first. Therapist profile: Click on Xiaojie Qin , Psychotherapist and Director of CandleX Inquiries or booking: xiaojieqin2020@163.com 详情： 此心理咨询为半公益心理咨询，有效期：自2024年11月至2025年5月。 名额：2个名额 费用：总共8次，每次咨询400元人民币 （50分钟） 适用人群： 过去6个月内失去亲人（包括宠物）的人士，无论是自然死亡、意外死亡等。 (可能) 经历延迟哀伤障碍的人士（ 延长哀伤障碍科普， 请见此文)。 优先考虑月收入低于15000元人民币的人士。如果您的就业福利包括心理咨询服务，建议您首先使用这些服务。 语言：英语或中文，或两者混合使用。 治疗师简介： 秦小杰 ，心理咨询师，CandleX创始人及总监。详情请点击名字查看 咨询或预约：xiaojieqin2020@163.com Prolonged Grief Disorder The following information is taken from the Amercian Psychiatric Association Website:  https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/prolonged-grief-disorder

As part of our Teens Empowerment Project  this year, we invited our teen mentees to interview their parents on the topic of mental health. Talking about such sensitive topics as a family can be challenging. The aim of this project was to create an opportunity for our mentees to explore a different dynamic with their parents- one of emotional openness, vulnerability, mutual acceptance and support. As a mentor, I’m very proud of our teens for writing these articles which give us insight into the value of authentic communication between parents and children. Leo Yu, a grade 12 international school student in Beijing, has previously written on the topic of self-discovery in his article ‘What Do I Want to Do When I Grow Up’ | A Teenager’s Reflection . As an international student who has grown up in very different socio-cultural contexts from his parents, he is attuned to the impact these differences have had on communication within his family. While mentoring Leo for this project, I observed his keen interest in building an open conversation track with his parents and his desire for emotional closeness. His ability to organize and conduct this interview while studying in the US as his parents live in China, further shows his determination to bridge the distance and form a closer bond. In this article we see the powerful impact that can made by stepping outside our comfort zone. Sharon Liu CandleX Teens Mentor Sep 2024 Leo Yu G12 International School Student in Beijing 2024 “I’m doing well”, “I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed”, “I’m elated by what had been going around work.” These are some phrases and sayings you will never hear in my household and family. Yes, they are Chinese Asians. We never ask each other, like in western households, “How are you?” daily to the extent that it may seem awkward and unfitting to social-cultural norms here in China. Despite the constant repetition of this phrase in Western movies and vacations, I never questioned our differences in behavior. It was not until the summer of my junior year in high school that I began adopting and reciprocating with other Westerners similar greetings, such as “How was your day?”. It seemed weird and superficial at first, a procedural habit asked by people I met here in the States; I questioned, “I don’t even know you that well to be able to tell you what I really feel.” In fact, the people I tried conversing with did not seem to care much after inquiring about my current well-being, as if it was merely a customary and manner-related habit to ask “how are you” when approaching anyone on a daily conversation or a passing-by. But since they asked, I really wanted them to know. So I tried telling my feelings instead of what I was taught in school- “I’m fine, thank you,”- and to me, it felt great. I wondered why this wasn’t a common greeting in my family household. I never heard my father talk about how he might be stressed about work-related matters, or my mother conversing about how she felt as a housewife, or even myself expressing whether or not I felt depressed or overburdened with school & extracurricular activities. So, I decided to ask my parents about it- something that I had never and would never think to do before.  Preparing for this interview felt like I was planning a speech, a weird but also exciting experience as it had never occurred to me that preparation could be needed in order to converse with my parents. Due to geographic separation, as I was and am currently participating in a summer program in California while my parents are back in China, I decided to notify them before the interview of the content and its backstory, finally calling them later on video to reduce its artificiality. The responses and conversations that I had with both my parents seemed to be long overdue, and they still continue to resonate in my heart, for conversing about mental health was something my parents and I had never done before. The reasons that created this atmosphere of awkwardness and discomfort around emotional expression were attributed by both of my parents to their earlier education and familial-cultural norms during their childhoods. My grandparents from both sides, like my parents now, never spoke about their emotions- both positive and negative- which were kept hidden. The conversing of internal feelings was often seen as a sign of weakness and vulnerability, which was not valued and often scolded. In comparison to many of my Western friends who feel accepted and free to speak about their stresses and anxieties with their parents, my parents and I seem emotionless in a sense. The contrast between the two cultural approaches became increasingly apparent as our conversation continued. My parents explained how, in the traditional Chinese culture they are in, showing emotions or discussing personal struggles was often perceived as a disruption of harmony and social balance. It seems that the practices of my grandparents were deeply ingrained in them, teaching them to view emotional expressions as a private matter not to be shared publicly. Despite these cultural norms, my parents both recognized the importance of evolving our approach to mental health and emotional expression. I also acknowledged the drawbacks of the Western approach as it often gives a sense of superficiality since it was customary to ask during the strict control of Eastern culture; what I want to propose is a collective approach of the two. Overall, the interview felt just like any other conversation I would have with them on a daily basis as we spoke to one another in a neutral and peaceful tone, but it felt more heart-touching as it related to familial matters. This topic actually seemed to be expected by them, it’s just that they are always prudently waiting for me to take the first step of asking, believing that taking action might catch me off guard. Their responses shed light on why my family’s communication style often felt detached when compared to my friends, and it was during this interview that we all had important realizations. They acknowledged that having a non-judgmental environment for openly discussing mental health within the family could enhance understanding and support for one another in necessary times. I realized that this was the second time my parents and I had ever actually talked about our feelings without getting into an argument- and that is to me, rare. The understanding that my parents presented to me felt like a long-closed door of my heart being opened; this feeling of warmth and being understood flooded into me so strongly that I almost cried in front of them. Having my parents’ understanding will be greatly beneficial for my open expression of emotions in later conversations, for instance those regarding my future life. Reflecting on our insights, I began to appreciate my parents and myself for taking this step out of our comfort zones, helping us navigate the cultural differences in emotional expression. Ultimately, this dialogue with my parents was not just an exploration of their perspectives but a journey to a deeper understanding of our family dynamics, something that would have never happened if I did not ask. The discussion highlighted the need to bridge cultural gaps and integrate practices that promote emotional openness while respecting our heritage. Something that one could possibly implement here to mediate the balance would be hosting weekly or monthly family meetings where we could check-in with each other’s emotional state. If I were to say anything to adolescents around my age, taking this first step, settling down with my (your) parents in a non-judgmental, bias-free conversation would open the family to many more in the future.

As part of our Teens Empowerment Project  this year, we invited our teen mentees to interview their parents on the topic of mental health. Talking about such sensitive topics as a family can be challenging. The aim of this project was to create an opportunity for our mentees to explore a different dynamic with their parents- one of emotional openness, vulnerability, mutual acceptance and support. As a mentor, I’m very proud of our teens for writing these articles which give us insight into the value of authentic communication between parents and children. Katie Lai, a grade 12 international school student in Hongkong China, has previously written about her journey towards adulthood in her article “Inevitable Path to Freedom | Katie’s Story” . Through this project, I have gotten to know her as an insightful young woman with great awareness of self & others. Her sensitivity and capacity for introspection leads her to ask deep questions about the world within and around herself. Through initiating this conversation with her parents, she’s demonstrated the courage to remain open & curious while facing her fear of the unknown. Her reflection in this article illustrates the inner growth that can occur when embracing the potential of change. Sharon Liu CandleX Teens Mentor Sep 2024 Katie Lai G12 International School Student in Hongkong China Aug 2024 Never had I considered plunging into the topic of mental health with my parents, and whether I genuinely wanted that information was an immediate afterthought. It struck me like a “would-you-rather” dilemma: Would you prefer half of an explanation or no explanation at all? To be perpetually loud or eternally silent? To embrace the whole truth or live comfortably in ignorance? More often than not, I’d choose the latter. For me, forging a deep personal connection wasn’t a spectrum but a chasm between extremes. For some reason, the possibility of gaining a new perspective from my parents, who are supposed to be the closest to me, scared me. Sharing mental health issues, connecting through vulnerabilities, and being overtly expressional is encouraged more than ever in my community; it has become a communicative norm, like a door that remains open once it’s been unlocked. My loved ones, my best friends, my peers, and slowly but surely, my acquaintances, people I met for the first time, all started bringing emotional and mental well-being confessions to the table. As if revealing insecurities or deeply personal issues was a procedural requisite in order form a close bond with someone. But amidst quietly listening, and occasionally relating to their outpour of sensitive information, I can’t help but sit back and weigh up: do I really need, no actually…do I want to know that ‘side’ of them? Unmasking another’s mental state holds profound power, beyond the impacts often highlighted on social media like reducing stigma or promoting openness. On a personal level, talking about mental health directly proffers invisible power to another. It is an extended directory of what she/he had previously experienced, felt, and basically how he/she as an individual is consequentially…constructed. It’s similar to uncovering a template that a person has been innately provided to craft upon; you can view their chronology of strokes, what colors they chose to include, their use of varied dimensions. Comparing all this to what you had anticipated ultimately allows you to conclude exhaustively upon who they really are. This power holds ambivalent valence- it’s satisfying and fulfilling to know that you’ve gained a deeper connection with someone, but what if this new perspective differs entirely from your understanding of someone who you thought you knew? Would everything stay the same or would the way you interact with them change? Since I was taught proper manners and gratitude, I built a respectful relationship with my parents. They respected my space, and I, out of understanding, avoided confronting situations or information they purposely withheld from me. “Ignorance is bliss”; some things are just better off put away in the dark corner of the room simply because it wasn’t necessary to bring them to light. There was a mutual trust that my parents knew what was best for me to know (and not know), and conversely, I trusted that they also knew what was best for themselves. Our family conversations often revolved around practicality, future plans, and nonchalant lightweight opinions: “Wanna grab dinner tomorrow?”, “What are your university plans? Got any yet?”, “The Olympic opening ceremony this year was bizarre!”. The topic of mental health only emerged in conversation at family functions in the form of a joke, or a reason as to why some kids were failing school, or when mentioning people committing suicide; it was about everyone else but ourselves. Yet, even without personal mental health issues explicitly being voiced out in the household, my parents still knew me best, and vice versa. Thus, the dilemma of whether there was a need to penetrate the rudimentary cast of staying outside of personal matters had me baffled. Again, the possibility of gaining a new perspective from my parents scared me. How would opening this door change our relationship? But ultimately, my curiosity defeated all doubts. Approaching this topic with my parents required more self-reflection and planning than I initially anticipated; far more than what is needed for a casual informal interview. My Grandma recently passed away from old age, and being sensitive to the mental toll my parents were going through, I didn’t want to push anything. I was clueless about what I wanted to get out of the interview and only crafted a few general, conventionally mentioned mental health interview questions. Before I let conflicted thoughts of consideration cloud my brain any longer, I strode into my parent's room with my thin leaflet of prompts in hand and started the conversation off; I thought, let’s just see how it goes. Seeing my parents relaxing on the sofa watching TV, I briefly introduced them to the interview and explained what it was for. “I thought we always talked about this, no?” my dad turned to face me. Perhaps this wasn’t necessary after all? Did they think I knew them better than to be asking such questions? Actually, maybe they got the wrong notion. “No, not about mental health and psychology, I’m interviewing about you, about your mental health, dad.” “Oh that stuff… it isn’t something we think about a lot now, we’re getting old. I’m glad you asked though. Come sit, let's talk.” It turned out that, following my grandmother’s passing, my father had been reflecting deeply on death and the “ruthless brutality of nature”. He admitted that he had a hard time visualising that one day, he’ll also have to say his last goodbye. Absolutely stunned by my father’s candid disclosure, my mum felt encouraged to also share some of her recent personal struggles and reflections regarding her friendships. Reflecting on it now, I’m still amazed by how openly they spoke rather than following the prompts or providing an answer formally built upon a standard definition. It seemed like they were happier than ever to share their true thoughts & feelings with me. The interview transformed into a deep conversation that I hadn’t anticipated at all. As for the leaflet of prompts, I found it tucked underneath the cushion at the end of our discussion, completely forgotten. Walking out of my parents’ room, all my fears slowly dissipated, and I felt closer to them than ever. Throughout our conversation, I also shared with them my baffling inner conflict; fears of things changing once deeply personal matters were to be surfaced, but also my desire in getting to know my parents better. Hearing that, my parents encouraged me to ask or speak up about things without worrying that it may change the invisible ‘template’ of our relationship, because there actually isn’t any; I should not set aside my questions and thoughts in the name of blissful ignorance. They have noticed that I became quite reserved these few years and thought that I was perhaps going through my teenage phase of exploration. But I was relieved to find that my parents turned out to be much more transparent with discussing sensitive issues. With all honesty, they explained that there’s nothing to fear of change, because nothing is forever stable and promised. And so, I thought; right, nothing is really promised, why must I restrict my actions on extremities? After all, none of the fears I had imagined came to pass. I didn’t need to treat my parents any differently based on the new information I received, nor did they expect me to act on it in any particular way. Sometimes, we simply need an open ear as a form of release, without the expectation that anything must be done about it. Perhaps there are no clear-cut, yes-or-no, good-or-bad outcomes when it comes to deeply understanding someone and gaining new perspectives. And that ambiguity is precisely what makes the process so intriguing.

As society continues to develop, the profession of psychotherapy has also received increasing attention in recent years. If you are planning to enter this field, you may be looking for more learning, practice, and employment opportunities. You may also be looking for insight into the career and life of a practicing psychotherapist. This insightful 90-minute webinar will explore these topics and provide you with valuable knowledge regarding different graduate programs, as well as advantages and disadvantages of pursuing this path. You will come away with a clearer understanding of whether a degree in the field of psychology aligns with your strengths, personality, and desired lifestyle. This webinar will be organized by Ms. Qin Xiaojie, the director of CandleX and a registered psychotherapist in China and Australia. Cost: 150RMB Event time: Sep 24th, 2024 19:30-21:00 Online: Tencent Meeting Language: English or Chinese (depending on the language of the participants) Content: 60 minute presentation+30 minute Q&A To ensure that everyone receives the relevant information they need, participants may submit their questions to the presenter who will prepare the presentation accordingly. Register: Please scan QR code below 随着社会不断发展，心理咨询师这个职业在近几年也越来越受到关注。如果你正计划着进入这个领域，如果你想了解更多的学习、实践和就业机会，以及做为一名心理咨询从业人员的真实职业和生活状态，我们的在线分享活动将为你答疑解惑。 这次分享活动会由CandleX始然心理的创始人和总监，中国和澳大利亚注册心理咨询师秦小杰女士，来分享和回答大家的问题。 费用： 150元 活动时间：2024年9月24日 19:30-21:00 活动地点：腾讯在线会议 活动内容：60分钟演讲+30分钟问答 语言：中文或者英文（根据报名情况确定） 活动流程：分享会参与者，提交自己想得到答案的问题，分享者会根据问题来准备此次演讲，以确保大家得到自己需要的相关信息。 报名：请添加Summer的微信 This webinar will cover the following key areas: Graduate Degree: Psychotherapy is a branch of psychology- how to decide whether to pursue a major in psychotherapy or another kind of psychology degree How to apply for master's degree in psychology with a bachelor's degree in a different field How to optimize your resume to apply for a psychology major Studying Abroad: The differences in psychotherapy degrees in various countries (UK, USA, Australia) The impact of having a degree on future employment in China and foreign countries Employment: At present, the counseling/psychotherapy market in China lacks standardization; guidance for how to maintain ethical career development The skills, background, and experience required by employers; understanding the current market Career and Personal Matching Index: Each profession has its unique characteristics. How to determine whether your interests, hobbies, personality traits, and expected lifestyle are suitable to be a counselor. Main points to understand when choosing this profession Note: Xiaojie has a Master's degree in counseling from Monash University in Australia. She is a registered counselor at ACA in Australia and a Level 3 psychotherapist in China. For those who need to have a deep understanding of degrees and job markets in other countries, please be aware of this. 这次分享会将涉及以下几个重点方面： 学科： 心理咨询是心理学的一个分支，如何考虑是读心理咨询还是读其他心理学科的专业； 针对本科学历不是心理学的硕士申请者，如何跨行申请。 如何更好的准备你的简历，让你在心理专业申请上加分。 留学： 心理咨询的学位在不同的几个发达国家（英国、美国、澳大利亚）的差异; 以及学位对今后执照在中国或者外国就业的影响。 就业： 目前国内心理咨询市场服务提供者鱼龙混杂、市场缺乏规范，心理咨询师的良性发展路径； 雇主所需的技能、背景和经验，以及目前市场上的工作和就业情况。 职业和个人匹配指数： 每个职业都有它的特性，你的兴趣爱好、个性特征以及期待的生活工作方式是否适合做心理咨询，将心理咨询当作职业你应该了解的主要内容。 备注：主讲人的背景是澳洲的心理咨询硕士学位，在澳洲ACA为注册咨询师，中国三级心理咨询师，对于需要深度了解其他国家的学位和就业市场请合理期待。 This webinar will provide enthusiasts with a guide towards entering the field of counseling/psychotherapy, while stimulating more competitiveness and professionalism within the industry. If you would like to learn more, please sign up to join our discussion. Qin Xiaojie's introduction: 这次在线分享活动将为爱好者们提供一个进入这个领域的重要途径，也将为咨询行业提供更多竞争力和专业性。如果你想了解更多的信息，欢迎加入我们的讨论。 秦小杰女士的简介如下:

In April 2023, Xiaojie Qin, psychotherapist and the director of CandleX, facilitated a highly engaging and informative workshop on wellbeing and stress management specifically tailored for foreign media outlet staff in Beijing. The workshop aimed to equip the team with essential skills and knowledge to navigate the unique challenges of the fast-paced and demanding media industry in China, particularly with regards to managing stress, anxiety, and other mental health concerns. One of the most notable aspects of the workshop was its casual and interactive format. Participants were seated comfortably around sofas in an intimate setting, fostering a sense of intimacy and camaraderie. With a group of over 10 individuals, Xiaojie led a series of thought-provoking exercises and discussions that encouraged open sharing of experiences and mutual learning. This approach not only made the workshop enjoyable but also strengthened the sense of community and support among the staff, fostering a more positive and supportive work environment. Another notable highlight of the event was Xiaojie's exceptional expertise and profound compassion. Thanks to the intimate setting of a small group, she was able to address a diverse array of questions and concerns from the staff, offering personalized advice and guidance tailored to their unique needs. This level of personalized care and attention to detail provided staff with a clearer sense of direction as they navigated the challenges of their careers. At CandleX, we specialize in delivering tailored workshops and presentations that cater to the specific needs of different workplaces. What sets us apart from other mental health and wellbeing providers is twofold: firstly, we have been actively involved in community mental health since 2015, working closely with individuals to understand their personal stories and incorporating these into our workshops, adding depth and engagement beyond just theoretical knowledge. Secondly, Xiaojie, as a multi-faceted mental health professional with extensive experience in both individual and couple counseling, is highly sought-after by many workplaces for her ability to deliver experiential workshops that emotionally engage and resonate with participants. For more information on what we have worked on, please visit our website and go to ‘events’.

Xiaojie Qin Psychotherapist, Director of CandleX Sep 2024 When you observe your breath, you notice there’s a rise and a fall. The same goes with our heartbeat, the temperature of rotating seasons. There’s that rhythmic Yin Yang patter. However, in our rush from one task to another, we often overlook the importance of transitions and the need to pause between endeavors or phases of life. There is a societal pressure to constantly be productive and engaged, with rewards and praise often reserved for those who maintain a packed schedule. As a mentor of two high school teenagers, I constantly remind them to leave some space in their schedule. Our inability to take breaks and rest is concerning. Moreover, there is a stigma attached to taking a break or stepping away from one's usual routine. Sometimes, life presents us with opportunities to pause and reflect, but we may feel embarrassed or ashamed or fear of missing out if we find ourselves temporarily unemployed or in need of time off. We rarely discuss the value of these moments in school or within our families, and many of us struggle to comfortably embrace the idea of downtime. It took me years of practice to learn how to use the spaces between tasks and milestones effectively, and I still have a long way to go. But I am heartened to see that some youngsters are increasingly comfortable taking the time to figure things out before making life-altering decisions. During my one month downtime time (闭关)in Brazil , I encountered a group of highly motivated young people with a deep interest in nature, some of whom are embarking on gap years. I had the pleasure of interviewing Katherine, a Chinese recent college graduate in the US who chose to take a break before pursuing her career. Her experiences and challenges offer valuable insights into the benefits of taking time off and how it can enrich our lives. I hope to share her story and the lessons she learned with you. I call this time: In Between In order for us to take this concept and learning to teenagers, CandleX’s teen mentee Katie’s reflected on this interview while editing it. Katie Lai High school student in Hongkong China 2024 Xiaojie and Katherine’s interview has said a lot. In the whirlwind of our daily routines, it’s so easy to get caught up in the busyness, always chasing the next deadline or achievement. I found that it’s so easy to overlook just how crucial it is to step back and take a deep breath. As Xiaojie and Katherine emphasized, hitting pause is a powerful way to reconnect with oneself and gain some much needed perspective. Ever feeling overwhelmed, I encourage you to find your own pause. Give yourself permission to slow down and rediscover your true self. It may sound reckless, but sometimes the best way to move forward is to take a moment to stand still.

As I prepare to contribute to World Suicide Prevention Day 2024, I've found solace in revisiting a video we created in 2019. This powerful piece, which conveys crucial messages to those grappling with suicidal thoughts, remains as relevant today as it was then. Over the summer, we've been actively raising awareness about suicide prevention, a campaign that started in July and concludes in September. Now, let's revisit this video together and continue the vital conversation, ensuring that no one feels alone in their struggle. Xiaojie Qin Psychotherapist and the Director of CandleX

On August 24, 2024, Xiaojie Qin, Psychotherapist and Director of CandleX, joined talented and famous artists Xie Nanxing and Fan Ranran, hosted by esteemed exhibition curator Nataline Colonnello, at the final forum of the group exhibition "Liminal Stages: Exploration on Perception, Existence, and Technological-consciousness" under the theme "Unlocking the Mysteries of the Soul: Psychological Perspectives in Contemporary Art". This event was hosted at the esteemed Wind H Art Center in 798 Beijing, was nothing short of a transformative experience that delved deep into the intricacies of the human psyche.   From the moment guests entered the venue, they were immersed in an atmosphere of intellectual curiosity and artistic intrigue. The carefully curated setting complemented the profound subject matter, creating an environment conducive to deep reflection and open dialogue. The discussion centered around the intricate interplay between art and psychology, with a particular focus on how contemporary art can serve as a mirror, reflecting and provoking introspection into our deepest selves. The panelists delved into topics such as identity, perception, emotion, and the subconscious, offering nuanced and thought-provoking insights that resonated deeply with the audience. One of the most striking aspects of the forum was the way in which the artists' works were used as springboards for discussion. The artworks of Fan Ranran and Xie Nanxing, were talked about not just for its aesthetic merit but also for the psychological nuances it conveyed. The panelists expertly dissected the layers of meaning embedded within the works, revealing how they not only mirrored the complexities of the human psyche but also invited viewers to engage in a process of self-discovery. What made this forum truly exceptional was the sense of camaraderie and collaboration among the panelists across different disciplines. There was a palpable energy in the room as they bounced ideas off each other, challenging and supporting one another's perspectives. This dynamic exchange of thoughts and ideas not only enriched the discussion but also inspired the audience to think critically and creatively about the art they were seeing and the themes being explored.   For more information of the event review, you can check it out on Wind H Art Center(山中天艺术中心)’s official bilingual WeChat account: 论坛回顾｜解开心灵之谜：当代艺术中的心理学角